No common interests tho, except animation movies. Oct … But this isn’t necessarily so. people say you should be over and done by now . I miss her greatly . I miss him every day. Share Followers 0. She always had emotionally dependance on me, maybe she spread that to me I don’t know haha. My ex and I broke up a while ago after five years as a couple. It had been a long distance relationship for a while by then but just got worse then. People often dream about their exes for years after they break up. I’m Sorry for What Happened. My ex boyfriend was a college student at that time and was so into his schooling. She has a history of childhood abuse that really hurts her. this is something normal?? She's been dating a guy for a year and a half now. He was angry as we had separated 5 years prior for 6 months after a trauma I had and I needed my time to recover. Should I contact her? My ex and I have been broken up for a year and 4 months. We married right out of college. She never responded. We are both successful professionals and have two beautiful children together. Still miss my ex after a year of no contact Still miss my ex after a year of no contact. 2. His email said that he’d had some things on his mind. After close to a year of walking along with him, there came a point when I no longer felt like we were in sync. (1) You suffer from Stockholm Syndrome: Stockholm Syndrome is a psychological condition when the victim is made to develop a crazy empathy for the abuser. My mom and dad were against it. They deserve to be with someone who treats them like they're #1, not #2. We spent al our time working and never made anytime for ourselves. But I still miss my ex sometimes. We might have shared years or decades of music, and hearing those songs almost always makes us miss our ex wife in some way. I believe during that time my illness became worse, which affected our marriage. November 16, 2017 at 7:52 am #178329. if I ever get another chance with her I will treat her as a queen . The last 6 months together was spent arguing. No matter how few and far between, we shared good times. I dropped my ex boyfriend like a hot potato 30 years ago. The short answer is that, yes, they very much miss you. Viewing 6 posts - 1 through 6 (of 6 total) Author. This is often true when your Ex has moved on before you have. Is it normal that I still miss my ex after nearly two years? I always tried to understand and encouraged her to find help for herself. Hello, my ex dumped me after 5 years of relationship. I don't miss or even think about her often, but sometimes she'll sneak into a dream after all this time, so what you're experiencing is okay as long as you're trying to learn from the experience and be a better partner to the next one. Participant Last» aaron80 Posts: 16, Reputation: 5. No matter how much abuse you are, you would not leave because you are emotionally attached … Sometimes, people are still thinking about their Ex for months, or even years after the relationship ended because of lingering insecurities or comparisons they're making — even subconsciously. Partner. Photo: Luke Pennystan via Unsplash. We had same values and goals. reply #3. wilmx52. My only relationship so far, and I still love her so much, though I haven't seen her since the breakup. I worked for a while after graduating, then went to graduate school, moved across the country, and established my career. We shared inside jokes. I was the one that divorced him. After all, the two of you shared so many memories together, right? Then we dated for five years. “Does My Ex Even Miss Me at All?” Today, I’m going to answer that for you.. . My ex had these things to say to me after our relationship had ended over five years earlier. Even though time has gone by, it's completely normal to miss someone that you were with romantically. If You're Still Missing Your Narcissistic Ex After They're Gone, Read This . Ten reasons you’re still obsessed with your ex - but why getting back together could be an even bigger mistake. I felt very comfortable with my ex. Then the other day when out to dinner with my current girlfriend, 2 girls sat at the table across from ours and 1 of them looked a LOT like my ex, and it just ruined my … We were together for 3 years and lived together for 2 of them. It depends on many things, such as what happened and why. I realized that my ex girlfriend I had was the best for me. Do the right thing and break up with your current boyfriend or girlfriend. And yet 20 years later I still think of Sarah. New Member : Jun 20, 2007, 07:18 AM Originally Posted by aaron80. “This can be someone who was in your life 30, 40, or 50 years ago, but you still find yourself dreaming about this person. He enhanced my life. Is it normal that after 5 years I still miss my ex? Is it normal to miss your ex after 2 years? We could talk about everything and laugh. It's just not fair to your new sweetie, and it won't help you get over your ex any more quickly. HiCrunchy. You love your abusive partner so much so that you justify the abuses and would not want to leave them. New Member : Jun 20, 2007, 02:08 AM What happened here no reports maybe he got her back after 5 years... SpottieOttie33 Posts: 12, Reputation: 3. Well she found "help" with a therapist, but this therapist reccomended to her to divorce. Leaning on friends is an instrumental part of the healing process for most people after a painful breakup. It doesn't matter that it's two years later; the history is still there, and you're bound to think about them. My ex is still pretty attractive but doesn't date at all. She was a great friend. Those good feelings and shared experiences we once had with our ex wife are hard to just turn off after the divorce. Unanticipated, unasked, over five years later. xPersephonex 1 Posted January 7, 2009. xPersephonex. We knew where we fit in, even if it wasn’t a perfect fit. I dont know why, I thought I had moved on and stopped thinking about my ex. with him i could be myself and i was feeling peace. Take this 60 second quiz to find out! I go … 5 years later, I do all the things generally advised – I went back to work ( soon to retire), volunteer, visit the elderly, meet friends, go to the gym, practise yoga, and have other hobbies. I keep asking myself to get up and do something but I don’t. We broke up for a variety of reasons some of which mirror yours. Now nearly two years later I still miss him ddearly. All Topics Topic Family & People Relationships » Still miss my ex after 5 years. after 5 years the pain I think is worse . You want to have those feelings for someone again. 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